Category: Blog
Do You Love the Game or Just the Trophy?
Having called Philadelphia home for nearly 25 years, I was glad to see the Eagles dominate the Kansas City Chiefs ...
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Uh-Oh, Dost Thou Protest Too Much?
Every weekend I take my eight-year-old son grocery shopping. He thinks it’s fun and he’s a good little helper, but ...
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Was This “Tough Love” or Just Tough?
I just watched one of the best examples ever of giving a direct report extremely direct feedback that their executive presence needed massive ...
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How do You Handle Massive change?
Life is full of major changes. Some are celebrated—a new job, buying a house, getting married, or having a ...
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Why Did It Take 3x Longer Than Expected?
This past weekend, I finally tackled something I’ve been procrastinating for far too long: I bought a standing desk. It’s ...
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Which is harder: Saying what you want, or knowing what it is?
I’m curious – Which is harder: clearly articulating what you want, or simply knowing what it is in the first place? ...
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Why You Must Write Your Goals in Past Tense
There’s a perennial irony in the fact that while the New Year is always a time for reflection and inspiration, ...
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Why Isn’t This on a Postage Stamp?
Happy Kwanz-Hanu-Mas! (Seriously – that really should be on a postage stamp!) Some holidays are weirder than others – and ...
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Where do Your Craziest Ideas Come from?
Sometimes I look back on some of my concerns or choices over the years and wonder, “Who put that idea ...
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Are You Ready for the “Alpha Whisperers: Genesis” Podcast
I love new beginnings, and this is one for the books – or at least the headphones! I’m so ...
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Saying No When I Want to Say Yes
When Mark Parker became CEO of Nike in 2006, he asked Steve Jobs for advice. Jobs said: “Well, just one ...
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Giving Tuesday: How to Choose the Right Gift
One of the “first-world stressors” in my life is the calls from my mom or my in-laws with the question: ...
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How to Solve Your “First World” Problems
Overwhelm—it’s a common feeling that seems to hover in the air as the holidays approach. For me, it hit ...
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The Three Reasons Why You’re Stuck
Sometimes my brain just gets stuck. My older son got me hooked on Wordle a couple of years ago. ...
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How Do You Know if You Are Irrelevant?
Last week I attended a webinar on leveraging AI, and in 90 minutes, the guy shared so many different platforms ...
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It’s Hard to Stay Sane When Everyone Else is Nuts
One of my favorite poems is by Shel Silverstein, “If the World Was Crazy.” The third stanza goes like this: ...
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Who Are You Dressed Up As?
Halloween is Thursday, and my 8-year-old is going to be Spider-Man… again. I love that he’s not wasting money ...
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Why You Need an Inner Circle that Gets It
Sometimes, I’m afraid to get my hopes up when something looks promising. I don’t even like to tell people about ...
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How Did I Miss Out on This?
Imagine my surprise the other night when I got a text from one of my best friends who lives just ...
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Why You Have to Laugh at Yourself
We've all been there—when a mistake feels like the end of the world, or at least the end of our ...
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How to Build Trust out of Mistakes
Imagine you're in a high-stakes job interview. The interviewer presents a crisis scenario: What would you do if, after ...
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What if They Don’t Want What You’ve Built?
It was a classic mistake. Despite what seemed like a really great plan. After over a decade of experience teaching ...
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Who Needs Notes? Use This Trick
When I was five, my father started teaching me how to play the piano. Part of that process was learning ...
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What does AI Really Think about You?
Lately, I’ve been hearing about a lot of people bravely uploading their personal or brand profiles to AI to see ...
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The 3 Questions That Tell You What to Delegate
Have you ever found yourself drowning in tasks, complaining about being overwhelmed, but still justifying your workload with thoughts like: ...
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What Will be the Color of Your Legacy?
“Well-behaved women rarely make history.” -Eleanor Roosevelt Yesterday – Aug 26 – was Women’s Equality Day, celebrating the 104th ...
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If You Have a Championship Playbook, Why Wouldn’t You Use It?
It’s disappointing when a movie you’re excited to see doesn’t live up to the hype. That’s exactly what happened ...
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That’s How it’s Done: The Speech That Split the Uprights on Day 3
Sometimes I love it when I’m wrong, especially when something far more powerful and exciting happens. I was wrong ...
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How to Leave Them Wanting More: Kamala Harris’s Teaser at the DNC
In the world of communication, the “hook”—a brief, compelling teaser designed to pique interest and leave the audience eager for more—is ...
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Deep Down, What is your driving force?
Sometimes the seemingly simplest questions are the hardest to answer. Over the last decade or so, the question “What’s ...
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Can You See the Writing on the Wall?
There’s an undeniable mixed blessing in doing contract-based work: The bad news is that just about every contract has an ...
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How I Decided to Make the Leap
All I knew was: I was sick of it. I felt like I had been killing myself to achieve so ...
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How Will You Break Through Your Biggest Mental Block
This past weekend I did a 3-day intensive (and BOY was it intensive) virtual Tony Robbins training called “RPM” (Rapid ...
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Can You Show Multiple Sides of Yourself at Work?
I’ve worked with countless clients who want to deliver high-stakes, persuasive presentations in a way that strikes that balance between being ...
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How do You Connect with a Numb Audience?
One of the most confidence-testing situations is speaking to a non-responsive audience. You’ve got something important to say, and ...
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How (Not) to Make an Entrance
There’s one cardinal rule you cannot break if you want to give a power presentation, or speak in public in ...
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What do Andy Warhol, Henry Kissinger and the King of Spain have in Common?
I was in the lobby of one of the high-rise office buildings in center city Philadelphia, waiting for an elevator ...
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That’s When I Totally Lost My Cool
This weekend tested every last nerve and ounce of patience within me. After a lovely and successful speaking engagement in ...
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What if You Made this $168,000 Mistake?
Topics in this edition: The $168,000 mistake This week’s podcast guest: Ekaterina Curry “Elevator To the Top” Elevator pitch workshop ...
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Can You Clearly State Your Own Value?
When I was teaching at the University of Pennsylvania, one of my graduate students asked for a bit of help ...
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Do You Know Your “Working Genius” Type?
Some changes hit us all at once, like a tax bill or layoff. Others sneak up on us, like those ...
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When is it Time to Pull the Trigger?
Sometimes the universe sends us the perfectly timed message. Other times it sends us frustrating contradictions. There are so many ...
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What Are You Willing To Let Go Of?
Has anyone ever accused you of being a bit of a control freak or micromanager… and have you ever reframed ...
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Take the Quiz: What’s Your Exec-Comm IQ?
One of the questions I often get asked is, “I hear so much talk about the need to develop ‘executive ...
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Why is it Easier to Nit-Pick Our Flaws than Celebrate Success?
Double standards are ugly things. There are countless double standards in the world, but there’s one that I truly believe ...
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Don’t Just Tell Me what You Think I Want to Hear
If there’s one lesson I learned early in my teaching career, it’s that there are two questions that were totally useless if ...
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Can You Tell Your Boss “That’s Not Okay”?
When I first launched my coaching business focusing on helping people – at the time, particularly women – find their ...
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To The Person Who Tells You it’s Impossible…
The world is full of nay-sayers. People who shoot down your ideas without a second glance. Their arsenal of ...
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Do You Know Someone Who Always Has to be Right?
I’ve always had a pretty high tolerance for debate, as long as the focus stayed on the issue at hand ...
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It’s Not What You Say, It’s What They Hear
One of the most universally frustrating human experiences is when we explain something, and the other person’s response makes us ...
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Do You Know if You’re Coachable?
When having an initial strategy call with a new coaching prospect, there’s one key quality I listen for that makes it a ...
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What I’ve Learned from 200 Episodes
I never thought I’d do anything 200 times. Love of routine is not exactly a hallmark trait of mine. Four years ...
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What My Mom Thinks I Do for a Living
Sometimes I think my mother wonders how it’s possible that we share the same genetic material. She hates being ...
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What if Your Gut is Wrong?
He called himself “the Marketing Mindbender.” (That alone should have tipped me off.) Several years ago, when I had ...
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Which is More Important: Words or Numbers?
My brother and I used to joke that our parents split all their genetic gifts down the middle and gave ...
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Do You Have a Shadow at Work?
The first mystery books I ever got “hooked” on were the Bobbsey Twins series. My mother introduced them to me when I ...
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When is a Fail an “Epic Fail”?
Unbelievably it was around 15 years ago that the iPhone came out with incredibly intelligent software that included predictive text ...
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When There is No Clear Translation
One of my favorite parts of studying foreign languages is the discovery of a word that has no translation in ...
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What is the Value of an Experience?
I love to travel, and part of the joy is in discovering what each new city or country I visit ...
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Sneak Peek: What’s Changing and Why
Happy holidays! (Major updates, new email address, – and gifts – below!) Hanukkah and Christmas are in the rearview mirror, ...
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What’s the Secret to Conquering Chaos?
It was strange to hear the same question from three people in less than 24 hours. “So… what did you ...
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When Your Message Goes Up in Flames
Sometimes our message misses the mark. And sometimes it goes down in flames. Over the last few days, my ...
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How is Your Tolerance for Change?
I am one of those crazy people who loves to host and cook for huge family gatherings, so preparing for ...
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When They Found the Courage to Speak Up
It’s not something I frequently get the chance to do, but this was a rare opportunity to watch a client ...
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Do You Have the Courage to Lead Through Uncertain Times?
Do you simply have the courage to lead? In this post: Discover powerful ways to overcome fear and uncertainty when ...
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Communication Challenges: Did You Miss the Big Question?
Communication challenges- did you miss the big question? Key takeaways: Recognizing the cultural differences important to marketing- How assumptions about ...
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Would You Have Passed the Test?
This is one of those sticky subjects that people (and companies) love to espouse as a core value… until a ...
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That’s When I Realized it Wasn’t a Good Idea
Have you ever made a decision that seemed like a great idea at the time, but in retrospect realized that ...
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Could You Locate it on a Map?
Geography was never my strongest subject, but it wasn’t my weakest either. At least, I didn’t think so, until ...
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And the Award for Best Actor in a Debate Goes to…?
I’ve never been a follower of the Oscars, Grammys, Tonys or other major awards shows, but if there were Emmy's ...
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What Do You Do if Your Backup Plan Fails?
My heart was in my throat. After seven years of blood, sweat and tears (okay, maybe not actual blood, ...
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How Do You Announce Change?
Everyone has needs; some of them are just more intuitive than others. Ever ask yourself, “Why do I always ...
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How High is the Mountain You Need to Climb?
In the summer of 2000 I was living in Japan, and decided to accept a friend’s mountain of a challenge. ...
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When is the Right Time to Take the Leap of Faith?
We all have to make key decisions from time to time that we know will change the course of our ...
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That’s When I Sat Up and Took Notice
Sometimes the person who is the least qualified on paper makes the most profound and lasting impression. A few ...
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Want to Know What Charisma Looks Like? Watch This.
One of my all-time favorite books on leadership presence is Olivia Fox Cabane’s The Charisma Myth: How Anyone Can Master ...
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Who is Lucky to Have Whom?
Meredith was burned out after nearly a decade in a toxic corporate culture. She wanted out, and she wanted a ...
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What Do You Value The Most? (Are you sure?)
When I was a kid, I remember my grandmother saying, “Laura, the older you get, the faster time goes.” ...
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What Instrument Were You Born to Play?
Old habits die hard. Maybe it’s something in the water, or the phase of the moon, but I’m amazed at ...
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How to Make Someone’s Day
One challenge I have consistently heard people struggle with is how to initiate or break into a conversation at a ...
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Do You Project Your Lack of Confidence in Spite of Yourself?
One of the most counterintuitive pieces of advice I frequently give to clients who are preparing for a big presentation ...
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Are you being humble, or Just Timid?
There’s one question I hear more than any other when helping clients prepare for career interviews: “How can I ...
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Does This Habit Hold You Captive?
Senior year in high school, my history class took a field trip to Washington DC. There were a lot of ...
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Is it More Important to Be Comfortable or Truthful?
I was in a business development seminar a while ago, when the facilitator said three words that smacked me in ...
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What if You’re Not the Obvious Choice?
“Did you always know that this was what you wanted to do for a living?” “Sweetheart, I didn’t even ...
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Which Pitch Will Change Your Life?
As the story goes, Colonel Harland Sanders was rejected 1009 times before someone believed in him and the secret recipe ...
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The Most Important Hour of the Day
There are two things that my brain and body have always resisted: Mornings and routines. I was a snooze-button ...
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The Truth about what Happens to Your Brain on Zoom Meetings
Some traditions are powerful, even in their simplicity. This weekend we celebrated Memorial Day, an annual favorite holiday of ...
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How to Avoid “Zoom Fatigue”
Are You Suffering from Zoom Fatigue? Now that you're on video conference calls all day, are you suffering from “Zoom ...
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Which is More Intentional: How You Speak or How You Live?
I’ve always been a huge musical theater fan. Show-stopping tunes like “One Day More” from Les Miserables, “The Gods Love ...
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Why and How to Take the (Verbal) Road Less Traveled
Do any of the following sound familiar? You thought you hit reply… but actually hit reply-all You agreed to ...
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Can You Be the Best in the World?
To my own surprise, I’ve managed to achieve a number of things I never thought would be possible, most of ...
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How Many Changes is TOO Many?
Imagine a conversation with your point person just a day or two before one of the biggest presentations of your ...
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Are You Competing with Others or with Yourself?
When my son Thomas was in middle and high school, one of our favorite programs to watch together was “American ...
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Do You Have What It Takes to be an Intra-preneur?
One of my favorite TED talks is Angela Lee Duckworth’s Grit: the Power of Passion and Perseverance. Grit, as Duckworth ...
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Why Does a Dog Wag Its Tail?
Q: “Why does a dog wag its tail?” A: “Because the dog is smarter than the tail. If the tail ...
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How to Be a Fly on the Wall
Did you ever wish you could be a fly on a wall, undetected but freely able to listen to people’s ...
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Why Their Story is Better than Yours
One of the most popularly referenced passages from the Bible – which most people don’t realize is from the Bible ...
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Are You Talking to the Right Person?
One of my favorite American “philosophers” was former New York Yankee catcher and later manager and coach, Yogi Berra. ...
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What if everyone thinks you’re wrong?
It may sound weird, but I can’t listen to Maroon 5’s “This Love” without suddenly getting a craving for papas ...
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How to Be Clear on What You Want
Only once did I ever meaningfully predict the future. In college I took an American politics class, and that semester ...
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Here’s How to Make Your Own Luck
One thing was certain: I was NOT dressed for a job interview. It was early December, 1994, and I was ...
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Want Them to Do Your Homework For You?
I have a confession to make. In high school I hated English class. (The irony! I know.) I had a ...
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How to Bring Your Passion to Work to Influence Others
Do you ever feel like the whole world thinks they know how to do your job (and that it’s easy)? ...
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What do Passion and Suffering have in Common?
I love when I get to “geek out” on you for a second, so here’s one for your “wow, I ...
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Was That Supposed to be Funny?
The emcee of the dinner social event warned me ahead of time: “It’s 300 partners from the law firm, and ...
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How to Combat the Fear of Uncertainty at Work
It almost sounds like the opening of a cliché movie: An asteroid is on its way hurtling toward earth, and ...
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Do Your Words Create a Legacy?
We all want to make an impact in life, but I realized recently that setting our goals permanently at “make ...
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Are You Penny-Wise but Pound-Foolish When You Talk?
If I looked up the idiom “Bull in a china shop,” it would not have surprised me if I saw ...
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Do You Just Want Me to Rubber-Stamp This?
Q: What is a camel? A: A horse designed by committee. (Okay, there’s your first groaner of the new ...
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How to Finish Strong in 2022
At the end of every year, we all have an important decision to make. We can look back on ...
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Is This Your Theme Song This Week?
The first time I heard it, I cracked up. It was 1986 and dad and I were in the car ...
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What NOT to Do with Smart People
I don’t know about you, but I often find that the best advice is not only crystal clear and simple… ...
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Is it Just the Illusion of Being Heard?
One experience that always makes me question my own sanity is when I come out of a meeting or conversation ...
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How Do You Create the Greatest Value?
About a mile from my house there’s a big ol’ pothole in the road. The first time I hit it ...
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Why Would You Partner with Him?
I love stories of unlikely allegiances that lead not only to triumph, but to a “win” for the greater good. ...
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Are You Willing to Bet On Yourself ?
I am what some might call an “accidental entrepreneur.” Nearly 15 years ago when I was finishing grad school, ...
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This is How I Show my Gratitude
This week is full of diverse experiences that remind me of my many privileges for which I am grateful. On ...
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The Most Important Question You Must Answer
Last week I received a great surprise invitation that made me put my money where my mouth is. Kelsey ...
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A Real-Time Case Study on What (Not) to Say
I can tell the holidays are coming by the growing number of catalogs and sales circulars in my mailbox each ...
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What’s the Easiest Way to Expand Your Influence?
There are two ways to make yourself indispensable: 1. You can provide the grease that helps the wheels of the ...
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How to be the Conductor of Your Team’s Orchestra
I’ve always been jealous of my cousin Dana’s voice. She’s a classically trained singer with the Washington Choral Arts Society ...
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How to Make People Want to Listen to You
Although I speak regularly in front of audiences from all walks of life, yesterday I found myself uncharacteristically nervous before ...
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What do Goat Yoga and Business Development Have in Common?
Q: What do “goat yoga” and business development have in common? A: They both require you to do a LOT ...
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What to Ask For From a Mentor
Sometimes I wonder what God’s voice would sound like. Fortunately Hollywood has given us countless versions to sample over the ...
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Did You Know That Went into Your Coffee?
“Would you like anything to drink?” the waitress asked. ...
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How to Take the Awkward out of the Silence
Just for fun, here’s a two-question music history pop quiz for you: Q1. On December 4, 1965, what song ...
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That’s Great, But What’s the Catch?
How many times has someone made you an offer, given a gift, or done something nice for you out of ...
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That Sounded SO Much Better in My Head…
I don’t get starstruck easily. But apparently, I’m not immune. Most of you know I’m a foodie. I love to ...
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How to Listen Past Your Ego
Just about everyone likes movies of one sort or other. Sometimes I need a straight-up “feel good” movie to put ...
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When to Admit You Don’t Know the Answer
“If you can’t explain it simply, you don’t understand it well enough.” ...
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How to Locate Your Blindspot
We all have a blind spot. You know I’m right, because like everyone else, you’ve probably had more than one ...
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What Do You Need to Let Go?
One of the funniest series of ads on television a few years ago was for the website letgo.com. Imagine the ...
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Do You Live in a Google-Search World?
A little while ago I got a rather funny message accompanying an invitation from someone to connect on LinkedIn: ...
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How to Ask for What You Want
I knew “Angela” had been on a job interview, so I was eager to hear how it went during our ...
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How to Create More Impact in People’s Lives
Here in the US, on Monday we celebrated Independence Day. There are many inspiring quotations about related themes of freedom, ...
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How to Activate Your Limitless Potential
Ask yourself this: How often do you catch yourself putting something off over and over, making excuses for why you ...
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Are You Asking the Right Question?
I have to say, the fireworks in Disney World were truly impressive, but they weren’t half as impressive as what ...
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How Can You Measure Your Qualitative ROI?
It’s official, summer vacation is here, the kids are out of school, and this week I’m revisiting a place I ...
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Have You Ever Felt Like You Just Can’t Be Yourself?
“Keep your friends close, but keep your enemies closer.” This piece of ageless wisdom has been attributed to many ...
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What if Your Job was to Help Others Have More Fun?
I recently finished running a half-day “Speaking to Influence” training for a client’s leadership team and received an unusual question ...
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We Couldn’t Have Done It Without You
I can’t wait to click “Send” this week! We have multiple major milestones (how’s that for alliteration?) to celebrate, ...
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Is It Important to Be Liked?
News flash: I was NOT part of the popular crowd in high school. Why? As Shakespeare said, “Let me count ...
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Who is in Your Corner?
Sunday was Mother’s Day, which for me is always a time of gratitude and reflection… and marveling, if I’m being ...
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How to Make Your Audience Trust You
Before moving to Philadelphia over 20 years ago(!), I spent a few years teaching English (as a “foreign” language) at ...
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How to Prevent Zoom Fatigue
Last week, after running a half-day virtual training for a major client, I received a unique “complaint”. At the ...
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Have You Accepted that YOU Are The Brand?
Today I have a gift for you: It’s my favorite sound in the entire world HERE. Did you listen? Did you ...
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Why You Must Connect with Your Audience
My heart sank as I saw the red flashing lights in my rearview mirror. “Do you know why I ...
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Can You Believe We’ve Reached This Milestone?
Honestly, I’m not sure I originally believed we’d get this far. In the beginning of 2020 I decided I ...
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Do You Feel Guilty Investing in Yourself?
My heart was in my throat as I read aloud the digits on my credit card, one by one. ...
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Do You Ever Feel Like the Dumbest Kid in Class?
I will never forget how stupid I felt in class that day. I was fortunate to spend my junior ...
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What to Do When You Don’t Speak Their Language
I am a lot of things (and I’ve been called a lot of things): executive coach linguist mother teacher “Jersey Italian” ...
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The Key to Leadership is… FUN?
Have you ever felt like your job was all about trying to make a square peg fit into a round ...
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How to Create an Experience for Your Audience
My wedding day was one of the best days of my life, because I got to do two things I ...
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What to Do When There’s No Undo Button
My husband and I are big fans of musical theater, and on Saturday, as a belated Valentine’s Day celebration, we ...
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What I Want for My Birthday
Yes, it’s official: Today is my birthday! I’m not usually one to make a fuss or need a party, ...
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Do You Speak from Your Right Brain or Left Brain?
I heard it again the other day. In speaking with a colleague, she described her partner as being “such ...
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Do You Wish People Could Read Your Mind
When I was first out of college (many, many moons ago,) I taught third grade in south-central Los Angeles. One ...
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How to Explain Your Business in One Sentence
Q: How is solving problems like wearing a miner’s headlamp? A: Because it let’s you see everyone else’s clearly, but ...
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What To Do When You Can’t See the Staircase
“Take the first step in faith. You don’t have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step.” -The ...
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When to Use Honey and When to Use Vinegar
“Which is right? Being clear and direct, or sugar-coating everything?” If I had a dollar for every time a ...
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How to Become Captivating in 2022
( Comic by José María Nieto @humorjmnieto) Happy New Year! Why happy? Because I’m choosing to make ...
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9 Ways to Finish 2021 With a Smile
Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you ...
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How to Make Others See Your Point of View
“Diplomacy is the art of letting others have your way.” – Daniele Vare When my older son (technically my ...
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Why We Self-Sabotage and How to Break the Cycle
I did it again. This weekend I started my annual Christmas cookie baking frenzy, which is always fun and ...
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What to Do When You’ve Lost Your Audience
A little while ago I was running a day-long training for the national sales leadership team – about 100 people ...
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What a 4-Year-Old and an Alzheimer’s Patient can Teach Us about Leadership
A few years ago, about midway through my dad's progressive battle with Alzheimer's, I remember getting an exasperated phone call ...
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Take the Quiz: Which Thanksgiving Food are You?
It's two days before Thanksgiving, and knowing that in 48 hours I'll be hosting two dozen people for the first ...
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How to Take the Road Less Stupid
If I'm going to be honest with myself, I have to admit that many of my greatest strengths and my ...
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4 People Who Inspire Me
(Read to the bottom for four gifts you can give to yourself and others!) Some days we need a ...
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How Did You Get *That* From What I Said?
It has happened to all of us at one point or another. We're having a conversation with someone, and ...
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When Should You Judge a Book By Its Cover?
When I was first setting out on my own as a consultant and entrepreneur after grad school, I had a ...
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How to Know When You’re Hypnotized
Last weekend I saw an amazing stage act. A hypnotist brought a dozen people on stage and before we knew ...
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What NOT to Do in Your Investor Pitch
I love an encore. An encore means the audience loved every minute of the experience and wants even more. I ...
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When I Had to Eat My Words
I don't know about you, but I'm really glad words don't have calories… because I eat WAY too many of ...
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What My Kids Taught Me About Leadership
Today is National Sons Day and what better way to celebrate this than to honor the boys (and all children) in our ...
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Here’s Why You Should Still Look the Part
A couple of weeks ago I had an experience that felt oddly foreign to me. I had the pleasure ...
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Forget Lemons- What To Do When Life Gives You Manure
Many of you know that I live in a suburb of Philadelphia, not far from the beautiful Longwood Gardens. (You ...
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How Your Mindset Pulls You Away from Your Dreams
Yesterday was Labor Day, a day to reflect with gratitude on the work we have, and all those who labor ...
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When You Should Not Mind Your Own Business
(Read all the way to the bottom to learn about an exciting new Discovery Network show!) My third grade ...
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What It Takes to be an Influencer
Don't you wish that when you explain things to people, they'd just listen, get it, and follow your advice? ...
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Are You Afraid to Raise Your Hand?
On Friday my 5-year-old son came home from the library with a storybook I'd never heard of before: Raise Your Hand, by ...
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How to Raise Awareness of Your Brand
If there's one thing I have learned in 13 years of entrepreneurship and starting four different companies to varying degrees ...
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Want to Be a Podcast Guest?
Recently I was beginning a zoom call with a client when I heard a lot of rustling and realized she ...
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How to Build Rapport Over Zoom
When you're meeting someone important for the first time on video conference, do you ever wish you could delete your ...
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Do You Suffer from Toxic Positivity?
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