Have Imposter Syndrome but Don’t Know It?

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They’re all looking at me and thinking, “You don’t belong here. You’re not one of us. You’re not ready…”

 

Has that awful little imaginary devil on your shoulder ever whispered those kind of thoughts into your ear? You’re not alone.

 

No matter how hard you worked to earn your role or the opportunity, that inner fear of being called out as a fraud is what’s known more commonly as the “imposter syndrome.”

 

While it can sometimes be due to more overt differences such as being part of a group predominantly made up of people of a different gender, race, age, language background or other shared experience, it can just as easily be nothing more than your inner critic rearing its ugly head.

 

Every now and then I work with a new client who expresses these feelings of self-doubt or of not measuring up. When I ask if they’ve ever heard of imposter syndrome, what’s most interesting is the near-instant relief they express at realizing that “it’s a real thing,” i.e., it’s a common-enough experience that it even has a name, and not something that they alone are experiencing.

 

I must confess that I recently experienced a twinge of the imposter syndrome myself quite unexpectedly while on vacation in Costa Rica just a couple of weeks ago.

 

I was invited to a party one evening, which had something of a “lifestyles of the rich and famous” vibe. Everyone was perfectly nice and friendly, and nobody asked for my credentials, tax returns or personal net worth, but I still couldn’t help but wonder if someone would realize I wasn’t “big” enough to be there among the rest of the group, at which point they’d hit a button and my chair would eject me out of the house like an old-fashioned Road Runner cartoon.

 

And in case you’re wondering, don’t be fooled — men also do experience bouts of imposter syndrome; it’s just not as common a topic of discussion in men’s circles. Perhaps this is due to the need to maintain the facade of confidence and being in control even if they don’t feel it… *ahem*… get the picture?

 

In this week’s podcast, I dive a bit deeper into the topic of the imposter syndrome, signs to look for in yourself and others, and communication strategies to help you overcome it.

 

You can tune in here for the whole podcast episode or here to watch it on YouTube.

 

 

What’s more, stay tuned for the upcoming virtual summit where you can gain incredible insights from dozens of thought leaders around the world on the roles, skills and qualities needed for successful leadership.

Izabela Lusinska, founder of New Global Elite, and executive coach is bringing together 20+ leading experts in this Free Event to share the TOP leadership skills and strategies you need to lead with confidence and authority in this unprecedented world of work.

Do any of these sound familiar to you?

  • Being a great leader is important to you, but you are not sure how to do it.
  • You wish you knew how to create healthy, diverse and inclusive workplaces in which people will thrive and contribute their best.
  • You want to know how to motivate people and how to build trust.
  • You want to ask for a promotion but that voice in your head saying “You are not good enough” just won’t stop.
  • You were told you need to have a stronger executive presence and gravitas to step into more senior positions, but …..what is gravitas anyway?! And where to learn it?
If you said yes to any of these, I’ve got a FREE front row seat to this exciting event just for you!
PLUS – Stay tuned for my Facebook Live interview with Izabela on Tuesday of next week after my original summit talk on Monday. Stay tuned for links to that too!

Get the complete Rising Leaders Summit series FREE right here.

 

Why? Because you are MORE than just “enough” — you’re a leader!
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