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The Burden of Certainty: What “The Diplomat” Teaches Leaders About Confidence and Doubt

Sometimes I have to laugh at the kinds of influence we can have on others. Recently I got an email ...
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Does Executive Presence Wear a Black Turtleneck or a Hot Pink Blazer?

On stage a few weeks ago, I polled the audience, with a little ironic drip in my voice: “By show ...
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Do You Bring Your “Boss Voice” Home?

The strengths that make you effective at work, like decisiveness, directness and cutting straight to the solution, can quietly create ...
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Tony Robbins’ 10 Life-Changing Lessons, Decoded for Leaders

Remember using CliffsNotes to get through the novels in literature class? When the language and symbolism got obscure, it helped ...
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What I Saw at WIPL 2026: The Quietest Brand-Building Move in the Room

Some of the strongest leadership branding around the Women, Influence & Power in Law conference didn’t happen on the stage. ...
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Two executives facing each other across a conference table during a job interview.

4 Questions to Spot a Toxic Candidate

Their Answers Were Perfect. That’s the Problem.   AI has leveled the content of interview answers, so the words alone ...
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How to Disagree With Your Boss: A 9-Point Checklist

There’s little that’s more stressful than trying to make important strategic decisions when you’re not sure exactly who or what ...
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Workplace Loneliness Isn’t an HR Problem. It’s a Leadership One.

Disconnection is not a remote-work problem, and it is not a Gen-Z problem. It runs from the newest hire to ...
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Laura Sicola at the Philadelphia 10K wearing a Make Life Count tank top reading Dream Big, Push Limits, Silence Critics, Compete Every Day

When the Goal is how well you run the race

Sunday morning I ran the Philadelphia 10K.  There’s something hypnotic about running in a river of other people, with everyone’s ...
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Same You, Wrong Room

“What have we got here kids, a shotgun wedding?!” That’s a great punchline… unless it’s not. In season two, episode ...
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