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When You Really Want to Shoot the Messenger

At 8:00 AM this morning, I was scheduled to deliver a high-stakes virtual presentation to a client team in the ...
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How to Make People Think You’re Smart

It’s one of the most counterintuitive rules of thumb I consistently offer clients who are preparing for a big pitch, ...
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How Much is One Minute of Silence Worth?

“The right word may be effective, but no word was ever as effective as a rightly timed pause.” — Mark ...
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What if the Greatest Impact Hides in the Smallest Task?

Nothing is more infuriating than being passionate about something and wanting to contribute at a higher level, only to be ...
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Are You Expecting Them to Read Your Mind?

This past weekend was one of those rare gifts: both of my boys were home. One is eight years old—endlessly ...
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What's Stopping You From Owning the Room?

I wonder if there’s a full moon tonight. Or something in the water. In just the last 24 hours, no ...
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Are You Trying To Make Everyone Happy?

“He went to Villanova!” That was the first text message that hijacked my phone last Thursday. All day long, a ...
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What's Worse than the Fear of Failure?

When I was 16 years old, my grandmother gave me the gift of a lifetime: she took me to Santiago, ...
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When It's Time to Hit the Reset Button

Sometimes it seems like certain people were born under a lucky star. Success appears to fall into their laps, doors ...
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When You Have Big Shoes to Fill

We’ve all heard the phrase “big shoes to fill.”  But what happens when those shoes belong to someone truly beloved—charismatic, ...
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